Okay the next 4 days are supposed to be the following:
Day 25: Your day, in great detail
Day 26: Your week, in great detail
Day 27: This month, in great detail
Day 28: This year, in great detail
I look at these days... and don't have the energy to detail everything. And I think over the last 30 days you had heard quite enough from me about all the goings ons of this household. Whether you wanted to or not! I have had fun making myself blog though for the last 30 days. It has forced me to journal more about me and focus on something other than kids for a minute. Don't get me wrong... I love talking about my kids and bragging about how smart, cute, adorable and amazing they are. But it isn't the only thing I like to talk about it. Sometime I just like to have a little adult conversation or listen to something intellectual instead of Alvin and the Chipmunks on the radio. That is why the satellite radio in the new van has been such a big hit. The kids have wireless headphones to watch a movie in quiet in the van and mommy and daddy can listen to Talk Radio and hear what is going on in the world. (even though it is never good and sometimes gets me worked up!)
So I have come to the conclusion of the 30 days of me. Yes, some days I skipped (either i didn't have the energy or couldn't think of anything to write) but I posted at least 30 posts in the last 30 days some were just about random stuff going on. I hope I keep blogging regularly and don't go weeks without posting again, but I can't hold any promises!! And on that note I thought I would post the second to last day --
Day 29: Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days
I hope to in the next 365 days......
- to blog regularly, pictures of the kids and updates on the family
- to change my attitude some days when Nate comes home from work and I am overwhelmed, I will try to not to take it out on him, when he did nothing wrong but walk in the door
- to be more understanding to R and to drop everything to listen to her (to keep developing that bond that we have worked sooo hard to create)
- to continue to take pictures of everyday moments, I look back on the last years pictures and am so blessed to have captured special moments such as: a kiss between brother and sister, riding bikes, hugging the puppies, sitting on dad's lap reading a book... the BEST moments in the world.
- to be a better housekeeper -- in some areas of the house I have been neglecting and not doing as much cleaning as I should be doing. I am home everyday, I should be able to have the house somewhat in an acceptable condition.
- to scrapbook -- to have a little "me" time to go in my dungeon and get lost in all the pictures and memoriablia and record those memories for years to come
- to lose the baby weight -- it's not fair that I am having the baby in October right before halloween candy, thanksgiving feast, christmas goodies... it's not fair. All I have to say is "willpower"
- to dwell on all the great things that have happened in my life and not think about what "might" or "could" happen -- remembering everyday “For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give
you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.” Jeremiah 29:11-12 NIV
My dreams for the next 365 days....
- that this pregnancy goes as planned and nothing out of the ordinary happens
- that when the kids all start school this fall, it will go smoothly and without to many tears and tantrums (some tears may come from mom since they are growing up WAY to fast!)
- I dream of the first moment I hold this little bundle in our arms and finally get to see her face
- I dream of the smiles and surprised looks on the kid's faces when they meet their little sister in the hospital and hold her for the first time
- I dream about the next years holidays with all of our kids like Halloween, Christmas, birthdays, Easter..... how yes it will be chaotic with one more in the household - but I try to think of all the laughter and joy of it all.
Plans for the next 365 days....
July -- family vacation in TN, Blankemeyer family reunion (reconnect with cousins I haven't seen in years), get baby room cleaned up so there is a place to put baby stuff from baby shower in Ohio, teaching R how to ride a bike without training wheels
August -- Kid's baptism back in Ohio, enjoy a week in Kalida spending time with family and friends, go shopping for back to school stuff, 4D ultrasound, First Day of School
September -- 3 day weekend Labor Day (do something around here with the family), stop traveling and get house ready for baby (kids will be in school so afternoons hope to be productive!), watch lots of Buckeye Football, campfires with smores and hotdogs
October -- go pick pumpkins, pick out fun Halloween costumes for the kids, greet our little girl, visits from family and friends (we have a guest room!)
November -- lots of new adventures with 4 little children in the household, start putting Christmas decorations up (oh yes need to put them up in Nov so you can enjoy them even longer!!), Thanksgiving, baptism for our little girl and little niece/nephew, R's 6th birthday (I can hardly believe it!!)
December -- preparing for Christmas (gift buying, decorating, cookie making, Christmas parties, lots of fun things!!), watching our girls in their first dance recital, someone turns the BIG 3-0 UGH!!, a chaotic Christmas :-) , and a week to enjoy daddy with no work
January -- snowball fights, lots of hot cocoa!!!, shoveling the driveway, snow days snuggled together on the couch
February -- making valentines for R, X, and G's classmates, more shoveling the driveway
March -- start planning our summer (where to go, who to see, what fun we will have!), Friday fish frys
April-- celebrating 6 months with the baby, April showers, picking out Easter dresses for my girls,
May -- May Flowers, going to the nurseries and buying flowers to beautify my yard, taking baby on stroller rides in the afternoon, being amazed at all the wonderful things that my kids bring home from school -- can't wait to see what they have learned after a year in school, school field trips,
June -- the start of the summer!! hopefully lots of adventures -- everyday ones like picnics and butterfly catching and Big adventures like family vacations!!
I have no clue what the next 365 days have in store for us but I plan on making the most of everyday and spending them hugging my children and kissing my husband. Everything else is just the icing on the cake!!